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And somewhere along the way, you’ll start to feel the wild passion engulf you.
And before you know it, you’ll be all roughed up and ready for a wild, rough time in bed!
Most kinds of kinky sex takes some amount of planning and preparation, but rough sex almost never needs any planning, unless you plan to involve toys and other sexual paraphernalia. But every now and then, a good round of rough sex can make them feel alive.
Rough sex is sexual arousal beyond penetration, it’s the sexual arousal that’s brought about by aggression. Somehow, being dominated once in a while with aggression turns a girl on.
[Read: 13 untold sex secrets you really need to know] The psychological thrill of rough sex One of the sexier things about rough sex is how contagious it is in bed.
If you claw your lover’s back with your nails, the rage they experience will subconsciously force them to reciprocate your rough moves with their own, which can lead to a heightened sexual experience for both of you.
[Read: 30 dirty ways to spice up your sex life] When you’re genuinely having rough sex, the urge to enhance the sexual sensation is so overwhelming that even penetration can’t satisfy you. It hurts but you like it, and that’s what makes the whole thing so passionate.
But rough sex isn’t for everyone and every stage of a relationship.
If you’re more dominant in the relationship or in real life and have a career or a lifestyle where you’re not pushed around much, you may enjoy submissive rough sex more than other people.
[Read: How to satisfy a woman in bed and make sex more exciting for her] Rough sex for the calm lover If you’re someone who isn’t used to the idea of hurting a lover while making love *in a controlled environment*, the idea of rough sex may sound gross and appalling, even frightening.
But you’d never know how powerful you feel or how sexually arousing the act can be until you try it.
[Read: 10 ways to make long term sex feel like a sexy one night stand] People who love rough sex get the sexual high, more from the pain they experience than the sexual pleasure they feel.
It’s definitely not a bad thing though, because every once in a while, a change in routine in any relationship can make lovemaking a lot more sexy and alive.